Walking each other home
Ram Dass
1931 – 2019
The Harvard professor who took the long way round and came back as a friend.
Richard Alpert went to India in 1967 and met Neem Karoli Baba.
He came home as Ram Dass, and Be Here Now opened a generation into presence without requiring them to leave their kitchen.
He loved Meher Baba, quoted him, kept him in the lineage of the heart.
In the last episode of The Midnight Gospel he appears as the simplest instruction that survives every apocalypse: just be here now.
His later years, after the stroke, made the teaching flesh — a man who could barely speak, still radiating the thing he had spent a lifetime pointing toward.
On the shelf
In the library
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Be here now
Be here now. The title was given, not invented. Before leaving India, Ram Dass was told that Maharaji had given his ashirvad — his blessing — for the book. He asked what an ashirvad was, and what book. He had not planned to write it. Be Here Now is Maharaji’s book. The instruction is so simple it keeps being missed. Not later, when you are improved. Not in a better room. Here. The one you are already in. Now. The only time that has ever been available for love.
Be Here Now
Ram Dass
Walking each other home
We’re all just walking each other home. The sentence does not require you to be further along than the person beside you. It does not require a teaching credential. It requires company. The dying taught him this. The stroke taught him this. The years of being the one who still showed up taught him this. Home is not a location you drag another person toward. Home is the quality of how you walk.
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Ram Dass
The compassionate father
Ram Dass kept Meher Baba in the heart’s household. He wrote of the Silent One whose teaching gives no importance to creed, dogma, caste, or the performance of religious ceremonies. The photograph in Be Here Now is not decoration. It is a lineage nod: the Harvard man who became a friend, bowing to the one who did not speak and still filled the room. Love everyone. Serve everyone. Remember God. The three are not a sequence. They are one motion.
On Meher Baba
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Suffering is grace
Suffering is grace. Not because pain is good, and not because you should seek it. Because the thing you would never have chosen is often the thing that thins the veil. The stroke took his words and left him more himself. He sat with people who were leaving their bodies and did not try to cheer them out of it. He let the heart break, and kept it broken open. That is a different kind of help than advice.
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The soul is not in a hurry
The soul is not in a hurry. The personality is always late for its own life. The soul has all the births it needs. This is not an excuse to sleep. It is permission to stop panicking that you have not arrived. Beings who are empty of ego and full of wisdom — you listen, and you remember, and you tune to your own being through theirs. Then you get up and do the next kind thing.
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